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Tributes & Memories |
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The following writings of feelings and memories were written by friends and schoolmates of Matthew during their grief counselling the night after Matthew's passing. Some are very touching and all speak of Matthew's beautiful personality. Some of these writings were also included in a "Booklet of Memories" presented to us by the students of Leary's Brook the day of Matthew's Memorial Service at the school on April 15th, 2005.
I’ve struggled for the past two weeks to write this note to you. I can’t image what I could say that would bring you comfort. I was away for Easter break and therefore, did not get to see you at the Funeral Home. Matthew and you have been in my thoughts since I heard about the accident. As I think about all the children and families who I have worked with over the years, I can’t think of any child who was more cherished by his family than Matthew. He was a kind-hearted, fun-loving and energetic boy who will be very much missed. I hope that it helps to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. .....A message from one of Matthew’s teacher at Beachy Cove Elementary School
I remember all the fun times we had playing hack out in the
parking lot.
I remember when Krista,
Matthew, and I climbed a fence at Beachy Cove and Mrs. Kennedy took
us by the ears and made us sit by the door for 5 minutes. During
that whole time, Matthew had a big smile on his face.
We use to talk about girls,girls, hockey, guitar, snowboards, girls on MSN. Matt use to show his cat and dog on the webcam when we chattyed on MSN. .....A Friend
I remember his laugh,
how he was so full of life, and how he was so happy.
I remember that Matthew
liked to skate and play street hockey with all his friends.
Matthew Churchill was a
nice guy. He was always a person that would make you laugh. I will
always remember him because I was always in his class from K-6 and
he always made me smile.
Matthew was a loving
person with huge, eyes you could get lost in. He will always be
remembered and we will always love him.
What I remember most
about Matthew is how he was always smiling. He would always just
laugh everything off. He would never let anything get to him. He
lived his life to the fullest and he loved every minute of it. He
was a great friend and he listened to everything anyone had to say.
He was in my basement spinning on my computer chair, then got up and
tried to run in a straight line. While he was doing this, he tripped
up and fell. Instead of getting upset, he just laughed it off!
On March 28/2005 we
lost an amazing friend, but we gained an angel who will be watching
down on us and waiting for you at the gates of heaven.
When we were playing
hockey in the gym if it wasn’t for Matt on the team we would have
been hopeless.
The one thing I will
always remember is that every one of my friends that I have fought
with, Matthew is the only one I have never fought with. I also
remember that whenever he was with us he never took the smile off
his face.
I remember how me and
Matt used to talk at night on MSN and he used to eat pudding on the
webcam. He was always so cute and nice. I loved his big eyes. What
helps me the most is looking at his picture and remembering.
Matt was a sweetheart.
He’ll never be forgotten! Matt was a great guy and he will always be
remembered.
Matt you will always be
remembered, and we will always love you. You were the sweetest,
happiest guy. I will miss seeing your smile in the halls. We all
love you!
The hardest thing about
school is Matthew not being there anymore because he made me laugh,
he was nice, he was just fun to be around. I worry about his parents
and how they are doing. What helps me the most is the memories I
have of him. And all the spotlight games that we had together and
all the fun times. I’ll never forget him.
When I heard about
Matthew’s death I was in shock because he was such a good person.
Matthew let me sit with him my first time on the bus this year. He
was so nice. I just want say to Matthew’s parents that you have the
support of me and my family.
My friends are so sad.
The adults in my life tell me it’s ok to cry. What helps me is
knowing he is in a better place.
Matthew was always so
full of life. I can remember one time when we were in grade 4 and
Matthew had aftershave in his backpack which broke!! Mrs. Stone
didn’t let him forgot about it for the rest of the year.
Matthew was an amazing
guy with a huge heart. Everyone that knew him, loved him. He would
do anything for anyone. He has so much life in him. He was a great
friend and will always be loved.
Matthew was a kind
person. He was great to be around. The thing I will miss most is his
warm smile. I give his parents my thoughts and feelings.
Matthew was a great
person who had the cutest smile! I have a lot of memories of him on
the bus for he sat rights across from me. I will never forget him.
Matt was very unique.
No one could put a smile on your face like Matt Churchill could.
Love you Matt!!
Matt playing on the
hockey team will not the same without you-I won’t forget you!
I did not know Matthew
very much but from what I see, his friends loved him very much. We
will all miss him very much. We will all remember him.
I remember one night
when we were talking about fairies and we got pretty scared. Matthew
told that turning your clothes inside out would keep you safe from
the fairies so Matt and Jason turned their clothes inside out. And
no Matthew how silly they looked, they went back to Matthew’s house
like it.
Matt was such a cool
guy and I don’t understand why this had to happen. Its help to know
that Greg is okay and that two tragedies didn’t happen.
I love you Matt. You
were a great friend and we will miss you dearly. Everyone will. You
had a lot of great friends too. I didn’t realize how many friends
you had until I went to the funeral. I didn’t even get a seat and I
went there 45 minutes early. There were even people standing
outside. But nobody can say you weren’t loved and you didn’t have
any friends because there are so many people who will never forget
you. RIP Matt. I love you. I’ll see you again some day. I’ll never
forget you.
I will never forget the
times that we had since the first time that I met you. When we first
started to talk, you showed me that you have two sides to you. Those
sides were your serious focused side and the other side was your
care and sense of humor side. I think those two sides are what makes
you a cool person and friend. I will also never forget those times
when we want to the rink early and watched the hockey games and just
to shoot the puck. Matt, even though I have only known you a few
months, it feels like I have known you all my life. Even though you
liked Metalliac and I liked rap that never made you thick twice
about being my friend. I also want to thank you for showing me a few
songs on the guitar and being a great friend.
My first feeling was,
“why did this happen?’ Now I feel really upset because of what
happened. Matthew Churchill was a great person in this school and a
lot of us here are really going to miss him. Most of all I’ am going
to miss the way he laughed and the way he smiled. You will be in my
heart always Matt.
Matthew was a good
person who never complained and always had a smile on his face and
he did not deserve to die RIP MATT M*15
Dear Churchy, Remember
when you tried to pop the chocolate milk and it took you forever and
when I did it for you. The meatballs subs that were always wicked
except you would ruin your with mayonnaise. And how we always
slapped each other all the time. Remember the time me, you and Ryan
were at Cozy’s and you guys dared me to trip up? That was wicked.
Every time I saw
Matthew in the hallways he was always smiling or laughing about
something. Everyone at school is feeling down because Matthew isn’t
here. I couldn’t believe it when I heard about the accident. I wish
I would have know him better. I worry about his parents and how they
are doing.
I thought it was a sin
when I heard about Matthew’s death because he was only 15 and he did
nothing wrong. Now I feel mad because of how he died. I worry about
his friends and family because it’s so horrible.
All of my memories of
Matthew are great. I remember one time when almost everyone was
going down to Cozy’s and I wanted to go so bad but no one asked me
if I wanted to and I was too shy to ask. That day on the bus we were
talking and he asked me if I wanted to go, Matthew was so nice to
everyone. I don’t remember a time when he wasn’t smiling. Another
time I can remember is when me and Faye walked down to his house and
we all sat on his deck and read ghost stories.
What I remember about
Matt was that he always put gross thing on his food and how he would
eat anything. He loved hot spicy food!
I was in his band “ZERO
TOLERANCE”. I remember playing hockey on Neary’s Pond and eating at
Cozy’s with him. Its so sad because he was only 15 and didn’t even
get to live his full life.
Mr and Mrs Churchill,
don’t forget, if Matthew were here he’d want us to smile. It makes
me so sad that I’m never going to see his smile again for the rest
of my life. Matthew was always the class clown, making people laugh
and everyone, everyone loved him for it.
I feel sorrow for
everyone who knew Matthew and for his parents. I didn’t know Matthew
well but it makes me feel sad because he had a life ahead of him and
it got cut off.
This tragedy reminds me
of nothing else because I have not felt sadness like this before. My
first feeling was sadness because I knew him and was talking to him
the day before. Matthew will always be missed by all of his friends
and family. He was a good person. He was a good person who never
harmed anyone. May Matthew’s soul rest in peace among the angels.
I remember when I went
to one of Matt’s hockey practices and him and Jason were down on the
ice. I was up in the bleachers with his mom, Jason had looked up
into the bleachers at me to see who I was and then Matt and Jason
both banged into each other and fell on the ice. We all laughed.
Matt was always making
people laugh. He didn’t have anything bad to say about anyone or
anything. He was a great snowboarded and hockey player. He rocks! We
will meet again one day. Love you Matt!
There was never a time
that I didn’t see Matthew with a smile on his face.
I knew him since
preschool. The pictures of him and he always smiling. The memory I
have of him is we were in grade two and he was really short and on
the bus he could hardly see over the seat. He was always trying to
see over the seat and he couldn’t and I would laugh at him all the
time.
Mr and Mrs Churchill,
thank you for giving us such a great friend. He was always smiling
and laughing and caring about other people. You are not alone in
this ordeal. All of us are here if you ever want to talk. We loved
Matthew and we always will. You guys are in our prayers. We love
you. We love you churchy and keep the big guy above smiling and
laughing.
Matt is still with us,
in our hearts. Matthew is an amazing person, because you are amazing
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